Depression may lead to suicidal attempt, try and fall in love with yourself

Many people finds it difficult to appreciate themselves because society put pressure on them to be completely selfless. 

It is not easy to overcome this pressure, even the most liberated people are adversely affected by the pressure of public opinion. 

Many of us are crippled by the masses of people who do not allow us the freedom of our own opinion and the exploration of our own personhood. 

Let me share a true life story about myself, "my growing up was full of misery, torture, bitterness, hatred from my paternal home etc. My paternal home hated my mom with passion to the point that my paternal grandmother and aunties always flog my mum to the extend of tagging her a witch, my mum was still enduring because she loves my dad and she loves and cares for the four(4) of us. It reach to an extend that the have to chase her out with strict warning that she will no longer see nor visit us, anytime my mum wants to visit us,she will hide in the bush and call us on phone.

She was no longer happy, anytime I call her to check up on her even in the midnight, she will be shedding tears, she was really depressed to the point she has to give up the ghost. 

I myself I was so depressed but I told myself that am going to rewrite her story, I will make her proud, the mistake she made I will by the grace of God correct it". 

Depression can leads to low self-esteem and it can make one to be obsessive about others.