THe STRonGest

A man needs a good wife whom he can trust with his heart, with a right woman, his heart has found his place of rest.  Trust is the greatest challenge / struggle for men. They often find it difficult to rely on anyone other than themselves, their hearts are usually guarded.  Where there is no trust, love has no place to be nourished, trust is the root from which love is nourished.  There are several areas of trust that are important for a man to feel whole and fulfilled.  A man needs to trust her motives.  He needs to trust her not to change.  He needs to trust her sexually.  He needs to trust her not to use his openness against him later.  He needs to trust her not to be in competition with him.  A marriage is a collaboration of two hearts join together to overcome the obstacles of life and create an atmosphere of shared pleasure and deeper love. Trust is the root of love for a man. 

Your husband should be your brother likewise your wife should be your sister. I do not mean your biological sister or brother. The reason the Bible discourages marrying a non-believer. God wants the basis of your love to be the fact that you share the same Heavenly Father. It helps so much when couples have the same faith and philosophy of living.  Your partner must satisfy your body, mind and soul. Without doubt, you need to have physical attraction for your partner. When this requirement are met a marriage is successful. So when you are choosing a companion, look for a man who is related to you as well brother. Look for the one whom you can communicate without words.  He is the one who knows what you are.  He knows what you are going to say before the words leave your lips.  You sense things about each other as twins do.   Undoubtedly, you will face challenges and problems in life, but you will seek solutions in the same place, you will both turn to your father who is God.  How can y...

Many people finds it difficult to appreciate themselves because society put pressure on them to be completely selfless.  It is not easy to overcome this pressure, even the most liberated people are adversely affected by the pressure of public opinion.  Many of us are crippled by the masses of people who do not allow us the freedom of our own opinion and the exploration of our own personhood.  Let me share a true life story about myself, "my growing up was full of misery, torture, bitterness, hatred from my paternal home etc. My paternal home hated my mom with passion to the point that my paternal grandmother and aunties always flog my mum to the extend of tagging her a witch, my mum was still enduring because she loves my dad and she loves and cares for the four(4) of us. It reach to an extend that the have to chase her out with strict warning that she will no longer see nor visit us, anytime my mum wants to visit us,she will hide in the bush and call us on phone. She was no longe...